♫♪Myles♪♫

So again I’m taking a nice hot shower but this time in my new house and something that I’ve been thinking about for a long time struck me. It was Love. Do adults think that young adults can fall in love too? I don’t think they believe but they do. Anyways, I was thinking if people would prefer never loving or be loved than loving and hurting and loving again? To love someone you have to be loved first so they say after their hurt they rather not love again because the pain of being hurt is too much for them. They can’t stand loving someone and always being let down by that person. The pain hurts them too much that they rather not love the person instead of comforting their pain more than love. I understand that after loving someone so much and they let you down and it hurts a lot because you loved the person. It wasn’t just another person it was the person you loved and trusted.

Then there are other where they love, hurt, love and the process carry’s on but eventually always gets more love. Why? Because they have taken the chance to keep on improving on each other, they believe that their love is stronger then their hurt, they most of all forgive each other, and believe in each other. They don’t give up because they know that love is a roller coaster and you’ve got to keep on riding it, like Ronan Keating’s song “Love is a Rollercoaster”. There would be ups and downs in the relationship but the important thing is that we don’t make a big deal about it. Talk about it. You know you love the person because when you’re together you can feel a feeling in your heart telling you he/she is the one, you feel so comfortable with he/she, and you can look into the future and see yourself with he/she. You know you love the person because he/she is different from anyone you been with, he/she treats you different and you treat him/her different and you would trade every second of the day to be with that person but never trade every second that you were with the person. I always remember this phrase “I look for that one girl that sticks out from the crowd.” You change the girl to guy.

We have to understand that love isn’t perfect either. All those talk about love is perfect is all bull@%$&. Love isn’t perfect because they lovers aren’t too. We all make mistakes in our lives so don’t you think we will make mistakes in our love life too. People make a big assumption when they love the person and they have a fight that he/she isn’t the one for them or everything they promised was a lie. Sometimes it might be sometimes it may not be but the best thing to do is talk about it and make your decision after. After talking through and working things out you’ll see that it wasn’t a big thing at all. You should be able to talk to the person you love easily even just slightly easier then anyone is an achievement.

All this may sound easy to some of you to other it may sound hard. If it is hard don’t get angry at yourself or your partner. It depends on the person that’s all it is. Some personalities are harder some are easier. Trust me though it is really hard. Adults that are married still don’t get it. I don’t get it either. All I’m writing now is things that are just coming from my head. I don’t understand what I’m writing. I know that no one understands love either. That’s one word which cannot be described or understood but I know it is meant to be felt.

I guess it all comes too how you feel for the person and how you feel about yourself. You can give him/her everything you have the good and the bad. To me it’s worth it to keep on trying if I love the person even if I hurt unless it a really major thing where I or the person cheats on me/her countless time. Sure I’ll hurt but it’s worth it to give my heart to the person. I rather love then never love at all. Isn’t love, life in itself? I just don’t understand…and I’m sick of it too..

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